We are positive Spirits, derived from the larger whole; the Great Spirit, God, Goddess, Buddha, Shiva, Allah, the Universe, Higher Self, or simply OM.
Whatever glasses you wear to perceive Source, it is important to me for you to know... you are most welcome here.
The only thing to know is this is a place of love and understanding, not restrictions. This is about tuning in to your own inner light, the Source that works with you and listening to your inner knowledge, to deal with whatever is at hand. This isn't about what anyone else has told you. This is about your inner truth.
With my past of organized religion, an education in world religions, a spiritual relationship that can’t be defined, as well as personal miracles and magic, such as meeting my husband through a series of impossible, divinely led knowledge, which led me across an ocean on mere instinct, I carry the term mystic as it encompasses what I value: a life of love, laughter, connection to our divine source and trusting that within ourselves, we too are divine. Magic and miracles happen within each moment, and our focus can be the spark to that fire.
As Positive Beings we have come to this physical reality to enjoy the ride and to grow. We experience "hard times", challenges, even tragedy, as a co-creation with those evolved, as it takes all of us to new heights, new understanding and new desires. Yeah, desires. Because when we know what we DON'T want, we know what we Do. And when we know what we do want... oh there lies the seeds of magic. We are dual beings, physical, trapped in this body and spiritual, with infinite possibilities.
When talking of her out of body experience, Lisa Garr wrote in her book "There are dimensions to this vast consciousness. (physical and spiritual) there are two different dimensions occurring simultaneously, they're two realities and two levels of consciousness. That means that there are two (of us) existing in different realities. My consciousness is about and below at the same time." She then described how she could shift her consciousness between those two states as she moved from consciousness to unconsciousness in her physical body and how she would use the clarity she found in her higher self's dimension when she was awake again. (I strongly advice reading her book, Becoming Aware. It's beautiful.)
But what does it all mean for parenting? EVERYTHING. It means we have a clearer view of life, within ourselves. It means we can use processes to gain that clarity. It means our children, and ourselves, are inherently GOOD. In fact, there isn't any bad! Simply, distant disconnection from Who We Really Are. That higher version of ourselves. The Angels we all are.
Imagine, as positive beings, our highest self, experiencing life and with every desire we have, in that dimension it happens. (Not just a car. I mean, desire for clarity, relief, wisdom, time alone, time with family.) When we, physical we, allow ourselves to feel stress, anger, frustration... anything not Positive. We create disconnection. Because our Spirit can never feel negative emotion. In fact, it sends it to us to tell us, "not this way. Come over here." And when we shift focus, when we change our thoughts, our emotions, the very energy we emit. and we connect again.
So, imagine putting this information into a parenting day. A tantrum, your child is disconnected. A fight... disconnected. You feel like blowing... get connected. Shift focus, find bliss. Join spirit's perspective and.... Parent From Source. Here's an example:
You walk into the room, for instance, and your child is hitting the dog.
Your immediate reaction is to get mad and you feel that anger rising up in your throat. But, you are aware of it. You take a deep breathe, call the dog over get him out of the room and then go to your child.
Getting into his space you can sense what’s going on and why he’s not feeling like his true self. His true self is a positive being, not this ratty, bundle of excess, unfocused energy. You scan your options, bored? Disconnected from you? Hungry? Sick? Tired? Sensing change or something happening in life (Christmas is the worst!)? Too much screen time? It takes mere seconds to scan the options. When you feel a pull to what it is, you resolve it. Hungry? “Honey, let’s have lunch.”
While eating, talk about the dog, if you feel it’s the right time.
Also talk about how he’s feeling and create emotional awareness.
You can shift the feeling space of the house. You can offer your child an awareness of how to feel his way to a new state of being. Next time he’s hungry, he’ll ask you for food, not hit the dog.
This is how we offer tools to our kids. When we react, get mad and punish we simply put them in a more disconnected place, where to make us happy they have to change.
But when we offer them awareness to their connection, to feeling like themselves and how to get there, oh, it creates a beautiful relationship and strong individuals to face the coming world.
So... here we are. A place where we work on an energy level, we use our emotions as our inner guidance, we use focus to emit a positive energy and heal our homes, we work on and with the deeper levels of our beings, and we connect to whatever is on the path to your greatest sense of connection to the Divine Forces of the Universe, for within that, that is where your clarity, your solutions and your joy lie. Here also, I fulfill my dreams of passing on empowering tools to my children, and yours. Through helping them establish self knowledge, and emotional and spiritual awareness, we can give them the foundation to feel their way to their own truth and path of life.